Mixed Feelings
Introduction
Everyone has had that feeling at one point or another when they felt that they had feelings for more than one person. Most people figure it out and land on one person. Some people feel conflicted and avoid the situation. Avoiding the situation though will never do any good and will ultimately hurt the other person who's waiting for an answer.
Let's get started! The first thing you should know is that you always should be honest with a person if you aren't sure about your feelings at the moment, if they say they like you and you aren't sure you can just say that you don't have avoid them or try to convince them that you do like them when you aren't sure. It's best to be upfront that way they know exactly where they stand with you from the beginning and aren't expecting anything from you.
Secondly, Don't ever try to pressure someone into making a decision on their mixed feelings as frustrating as it is for the reciever to hear that they may not be liked back or someone is unsure about them. It's a lot better than a straight up no. It's also a lot better than them running away so if someone is honest with you and gives you this information take it for what it is and respect the fact they feel this way and give them some space to figure it out.
Not everyone gets along with each other or is meant to be with one another and that's ok, you shouldn't dwell on it. It's important to respect what someone tells you and to respect their feelings.
Try not to fixate to much on the person who you are waiting an answer from because it might not be the answer you want and you have to be prepared for that. This is not a good time to fantasize of what you two could be like together this is a good time to stay aware of what is happening and the current situation.
Remember to keep your hearts open but also slightly guarded upon first meeting!
Last piece of advice I have for you guys is if you are on the recieving end of mixed feelings don't feel discouraged it might turn out your way but if it doesn't don't give up.
If you are the one with the mixed feelings take some time to yourself to figure these out and don't rush it. It's up to you who you like.
WRITTEN BY:Emery Levine
Everyone has had that feeling at one point or another when they felt that they had feelings for more than one person. Most people figure it out and land on one person. Some people feel conflicted and avoid the situation. Avoiding the situation though will never do any good and will ultimately hurt the other person who's waiting for an answer.
Let's get started! The first thing you should know is that you always should be honest with a person if you aren't sure about your feelings at the moment, if they say they like you and you aren't sure you can just say that you don't have avoid them or try to convince them that you do like them when you aren't sure. It's best to be upfront that way they know exactly where they stand with you from the beginning and aren't expecting anything from you.
Secondly, Don't ever try to pressure someone into making a decision on their mixed feelings as frustrating as it is for the reciever to hear that they may not be liked back or someone is unsure about them. It's a lot better than a straight up no. It's also a lot better than them running away so if someone is honest with you and gives you this information take it for what it is and respect the fact they feel this way and give them some space to figure it out.
Some more advice
Not everyone gets along with each other or is meant to be with one another and that's ok, you shouldn't dwell on it. It's important to respect what someone tells you and to respect their feelings.
Try not to fixate to much on the person who you are waiting an answer from because it might not be the answer you want and you have to be prepared for that. This is not a good time to fantasize of what you two could be like together this is a good time to stay aware of what is happening and the current situation.
Remember to keep your hearts open but also slightly guarded upon first meeting!
Last piece of advice I have for you guys is if you are on the recieving end of mixed feelings don't feel discouraged it might turn out your way but if it doesn't don't give up.
If you are the one with the mixed feelings take some time to yourself to figure these out and don't rush it. It's up to you who you like.
WRITTEN BY:Emery Levine